So, in my time in dungeons i find that 3 of every 5 tanks....simply just don't care who has aggro. That who generally being me since I'm healing. It make me VERY appreciative of good tanks where i can simply heal. Generally though i end up having aggro on 1-3 mobs a lot of the time. I generally sleep one, and kite the other 2 until the tank kills w/e mob he was hitting and hopefully builds hate on a new target, preferably..but not usually.. one of the ones I'm kiting..not the one i put to sleep ~_~ More often than not, the dps who are just tunneling w/e add they want, and endlessly awaking my sleep target, yell at me for kiting, or as they call it "running around like an idiot." That's all fine and dandy but what else would they have me do? stand there and die? I must say it does make healing more interesting i guess, having to wait for my adds to hard cast something so they stop chasing me for a second so that i can toss a cure or 2 out. My groups don't really die ever, first boss of sunken temple was hilarious first few runs though, everyone insta gibs...wtf happened?...but I'm just confused by the hate, it's generally not my fault i have aggro on 3 mobs the tank didn't bother to touch, i don't spam heal, or blanket regen, unless . I generally wait till tank is initially half life to even start healing. So i'm doing my best not to die, while also keeping everyone else alive, while managing these adds on me...and people just yell at me haha TLDR - what would most people have the healer do when they get aggro? stand and hard cast cures/probably die? or kite and heal? other?